Tuesday, December 1, 2009

A little of this, a little of that...

Can you believe it is time to send out Christmas cards? This year has gone by so quickly! In reflecting back on this year, our family has gone through a lot, but with the support of our friends and family, we made it through. We have so much to be thankful for!

My last surgery was done almost 2 weeks ago. I had a complete hysterectomy, which wasn't bad at all! My oncologist thought it would be a wise decision to have this done since my cancer was fueled by estrogen. My doctor did the surgery laprascopically and vaginally, and the recovery hasn't been bad at all! I had a 2 night hospital stay. The pain meds and I didn't agree so much, but after I got off of all of those, I started to feel so much better! I go for my 2 week post-op appointment on Friday. Hopefully my doctor will release me to go back to work on Monday. So that should be the last of my "treatment"! Yay....now I'm just waiting on my hair to grow! It is still really curly, although it is getting longer! It has relaxed a bit, but nontheless, still incredibly curly!

I am posting random pictures from all of our "Fall Happenings!" Enjoy!

I ran in my 4th 5K race on November 7th. This was "Racheal's Run," which was a 5K run and a family 1 mile walk dedicated to the precious life of a 2 year old who lost her battle with cancer a year ago. Her mother is a chemo nurse at the Cancer Center where I go. The Gleason's are an incredible family with such strong faith, that I admire. This will become an annual event...will you run/ walk next year to support research on childhood cancers? I hope so!


Graham finished another soccer season with CESA. He has learned so much this year and is an awesome defender! He also played goalie a good bit. We will return to soccer in February for the spring season!






Fun with friends...We had a day of fall fun with the Columbia's, Will and Meredith!



Thanksgiving visit with Uncle Daryl, and his 4 month-old puppy, Major! Graham and Mallory Kate ADORE Uncle Daryl! We can't wait to see him and Liza and Kathryn in a few weeks for Christmas!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Pumkin Patch...

Today we went to the Pumpkin Patch to get our pumpkin. It has become a tradition to get ours from St. Giles Pumpkin Patch. Mallory Kate had so much fun finding the perfect "baby Pumpkin" as she called it. Graham helped find one that was perfect to carve. The kids are getting so excited about Halloween next week! Graham wants to be Harry Potter, again, and Mallory Kate wants to be Tinkerbell, again! Pictures to come later from trick-or-treating! Happy Fall to all!

Monday, August 10, 2009

One year later...

Is it bad that I couldn't remember my password to log-in to my own blog? It has been that long, huh? Or can I blame the "chemo brain" for that one? Well...let's see where to begin...I guess a recap of our busy summer! We enjoyed a short beach trip, several lake trips, a visit to Alabama to visit family, and a week-long anniversary cruise to the Western Caribbean (w/o kids)! Unfortunately, we came back from the cruise to hear my step-dad had a massive stroke. It is a slow road to recovery, but he has made lots of progress. Phew...what a busy, but very fun summer!

And then school started...Graham started 2nd grade and LOVES it! I have a great class this year as well. It is so nice being back at school with co-workers that I absolutely adore! Mallory Kate got moved to another 2's class with a new teacher. She is adjusting...still, but I am happy to report that we are in BIG GIRL PANTIES 24/7 now! She was potty trained in June and has done AWESOME! Yeah...saving more money!

Can you believe one year ago, I heard the dreaded the words, "You have stage III breast cancer." In some ways, it has been a really long year, but in others I feel like it is all a distant memory. The only constant reminder of BC is my hair...now VERY CURLY and short. I stopped wearing my wig at the beginning of June, but am still not digging the short-do style. Believe it or not, I get compliments on it all the time. "Is your hair naturally curly?" or "I wish I could wear my hair that short." And then I respond with, "Yes, my hair is NOW naturally curly, and yes, you COULD wear your that short if you had to!" It will grow- hopefully longer rather than out like an afro! I am thinking about going to buy some good hair product to tame it a bit! Last weekend I ran in Race for the Cure at ICAR. I attended all the "Survivor" activities and marched in the Survivor Parade. What a great experience to be in the midst of co-survivors! I hope to one day be able to march in the 30+ years out category! I had my 1 year breast MRI 2 weeks ago- and all was clear...PRAISE GOD! I see my oncologist in a week and get labs done as well. So far, so good! My doctors are keeping a close eye on me, and I see my oncologist every 3 months for now. I have my hysterectomy scheduled for November 19th. Hopefully the recovery won't be so bad...nothing can compare to chemo! So I feel good about it. I have kept up my running 5 days a week, so hopefully that will benefit me!

Enjoy the pictures from the summer and some from the Race for the Cure! And thank you for all the prayers that have gotten my family through to this one year mark! I love you all!












Monday, June 15, 2009

Happy 7th Birthday Graham!

Graham had his 7th birthday on June 3rd! I can't believe it! Where has the time gone? He debated and debated over what kind of birthday party to have. He finally decided on a roller skating birthday party at Taylors Roller Sports- the same place where I once had a few birthdays of my own! He had a great turnout with family and a few school friends. He had a blast and has really enjoyed learning to roller skate! He even got a pair of in-line skates for his birthday from Mema and Papa- which he loves! Happy birthday Graham! We love you!

Awards Day at School...
Graham was recognized at school for several things including the "Music Star" in his class, meeting his AR Reading goal, and the Citizenship Award for his class! Then from his teacher, she recognized him as "Mr. Manners"! She told me that out of the 20-something years she has taught, that Graham has had the best manners of all of her students! What an amazing compliment! We are very proud of our son for sure!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

A long update...

Well...sorry it has been a while since my last post. Many things have kept me busy, including being back at school. Yes...I went back to school at the beginning of March and I am so thankful for that! That has been one of the best things for me- it just got us all back into "normal routines"! I will try to recap the last few months as best as possible! At the beginning of March we had some snow- ironically school was closed on the day I was supposed to return to work! The kids had a blast and Mallory Kate loved making snow angels!


Graham has been busy with Cub Scouts, soccer, and school. He had his first Pinewood Derby Race. Graham decided he wanted a Gamecock car- from Greg's influence! His car had a little "engine trouble" when his weights on the bottom dragged the track a little. But next year we'll know! Soccer just recently finished up! Graham scored 1 goal this season! He has a lot of speed and he really hustles on the field! He is finishing up his 1st grade year- so hard for me to believe! He is doing very well in school, but he is really looking forward to summer! (Aren't we all?)


Mallory Kate has really come out with her little personality in the last few months! She is very demanding and a daddy's girl, for sure! Funny story...the other night I was trying to put her to bed. She insisted for daddy to do it, and I said that I wanted to put her to bed. She started to pitch a fit and told me " I don't like you Mommy!" Greg heard her and he came to the rescue! So I went downstairs to get Graham ready for bed. He was so concerned and asked me if Mallory Kate had hurt my feelings! He had heard "our tiff" through the monitor! What a caring little boy! I explained that hopefully this is just a little stage she is in right now!


I finished up my 37 radiation treatments during Spring Break and celebrated with a well-deserved beach trip! Our family went with some of our friends, the Columbia's, and we had a great time! The weather was PERFECT and we had so much fun hanging out and doing nothing!



Last weekend I took the kids strawberry picking for the first time. Mallory Kate put 1 strawberry in the basket and ate the rest! I thought she was going to get sick from eating so many fresh strawberries! Graham enjoyed it too and made sure his little sister was picking the best ones!


I can officially now call myself a cancer SURVIVOR! It really hit home last week when I attended a Relay for Life Cancer Survivor dinner. It was an eye-opener to be surrounded by so many survivors! What an inspiration it was! Our Relay for Life is this Friday, May 15th at JL Mann High School. Come out if you can and support us!

I met with Dr. Gococo a few weeks ago for my first appointment post-treatments. My lab work looked good and I have started a daily medication called Tamoxifen. This is a hormone receptor blocker medication. I will have a mammogram and breast MRI in September and see my surgeon for a follow up appointment then. Dr. Gococo suggests a hysterectomy later in the year- I think maybe in December. This will stop the estrogen production, since my ovaries will be gone. I am completely at ease with this decision-the only concern I have with this is that I cannot take any hormone replacement therapy. I hope that I will not be too "moody"! So now on to more important things...hair! I have hair now- and my first appointment is May 26th for a cut and color. I still am wearing my wig right now, but my hair is about 1 inch long. It came back in all gray, so I thought I would fix that! Well...not such good results! I bought a wash-out hair dye at CVS that said it covers gray hair. Let me tell you...false advertising! It covered "some" of the gray hair and left my hair splotchy! Oh well, thank goodness for the wig still! My hairdresser will fix it in a few weeks! My goal is to be without a wig by June 5th- the last day of school. I just couldn't imagine going through the summer having to wear this hot wig! So, I'm not so excited about a short new doo, but I am ready to put the wig back into the box!


Oh, and one more thing, I have started running. I would have never thought I would say "me" and "running"together in the same sentence, but it is true! I have a great friend that I teach with who is "coaching" me and a few others. We have been running 2 miles, 3 times a week. I want to get up to 3 miles hopefully in the next month! I have decided I am going to run a 5K in November- Rachel's Run. A run dedicated to a precious little 2 year old who lost her battle with cancer. Graham has also decided to run in this race!


So that's what we have been up to in the last few months! Happy Mother's Day to all moms out there! What a blessing it is to be a mother! XOXOXO